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When you say "Yes!" and that gorgeous sparkly engagement ring is on your finger, it is one of the happiest moments of your life. But when the wedding approaches, a common question arises: "How am I supposed to wear my wedding band with this?" Should the new ring be worn first? Do they have to match? What happens if they don’t fit together like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle? At Mr and Mrs Wedding in Italy, we have helped countless couples through these tiny details. While the details are minor, your rings symbolize your love and you will wear them every day. Here is our expert advice on how to wear your rings in a beautiful style while being comfortable. The Traditional Way: Close to Your Heart If you want to maintain the custom there is a set sequence for your rings. People generally put their wedding rings on the fourth finger of the left hand. Conventionally, people use their Wedding Band underneath the engagement ring. Hence, the wedding band is worn first putting it closer to the heart on a physical level. At a wedding, most brides take the engagement ring to their right hand for a moment allowing the groom to comfortably put the wedding band on their finger. Post the marriage ceremony, they wear the engagement ring planning again on top. Should They Match? One of the most common questions we are asked as wedding planners is whether the two rings have to be a "set." Well, the short answer to that question is: only if you want them to! Traditionally, most people bought a set where the metals and diamonds match perfectly. However, in the current era, "mixing and matching" is a highly trendy option. You may have a rose gold engagement ring and a platinum Wedding Band. This gives a unique and trendy look to your rings that reflects your personality. Finding the Perfect Fit The sides of engagement rings don’t always feature flat surfaces. For example, if your diamond is particularly large or shaped unusually, and you desire for the two rings to sit next to each other with no gap or separation you may wish to find a contoured or curved wedding band that has been created so that it fits against the engagement ring’s curves. The slight bend designed into the contoured/curved wedding band allows it to contour to the engagement ring.   Thinking About Comfort Of course, every one of us desire our engagement/wedding rings to look mesmerizing but there are other considerations based on one's lifestyle eg. Work, cooking and travelling etc. One should always keep in mind that the ring is to be worn on a daily basis. If your lifestyle is quite active, you may want to select a Wedding Band, thinner and smoother which, unlike the diamond ring, will not get caught on clothing. In fact some ladies prefer to limit wearing only the wedding band every day and reserve the engagement ring for special occasions or going out at night. There really is no mistake in whichever way you choose to do it! The "Right Hand" Option In some cultures and countries, it is actually common to wear the wedding rings on the right hand. If you find that your left hand feels too "crowded" with two rings, or if you just prefer the way it looks, you can certainly wear one ring on each hand. This is a great solution if your rings are both very large and don't physically fit well on one finger. Expert Advice from Italy Planning a wedding involves much more than that of just having a ceremony, as it also includes the symbols that will stay with you for years to come. When choosing a Wedding Band, we recommend you try it on with your Engagement Ring and wear the rings together for a minimum of five minutes. While wearing both rings, walk around and move your fingers to see how it feels. At Mr and Mrs Wedding in Italy, we encourage the rings to tell your story. Whether it's a gold band (classic choice), beautiful vintage style, or a very different/unique piece, it should be something that represents you! Conclusion At the end of the day, there are no hard and fast rules when it comes to how you choose to wear your rings. Whether you choose to follow this tradition or come up with something uniquely your own, it is really the promise that they symbolize that is important. Your rings are symbolic of your love, which has no end. Take your time, experiment with different looks, and find the one that makes you smile when you look down at your hand. Are you looking for an unforgettable wedding in the heart of Italy? Let us help you plan your dream wedding. Contact Us.